Should i finger my boyfriend

Tons of men tend to treat the clitoris like they treat their own penis. Everyone with a vulva is different, but most people need delicate clitoral stimulation. Go nice and slow. One major thing that I think a lot of people get wrong is getting too complicated with fingering. So many people try to do all of these complex, creative techniques. This can feel overwhelming to so many people, and can even be painful if your clitoris is sensitive. If there was one particular stroke that you liked during your masturbation explorations — for example, going in a circle around your clitoris — tell your partner to focus on that one particular stroke.

Just that one stroke. Or try switching back and forth between two strokes every few minutes. Another great fingering technique is to try one hand externally on the clitoris, and the other hand internally. A lot of women love this dual stimulation. Its main function is to release prostate fluid, which is one of the elements of semen. This small, walnut-shaped gland is essential to the reproductive process. It's located just inside the rectum and can be reached through the anus.

Many people enjoy having their prostate stimulated. All it means is that they like their prostate touched -- it's not an indication of their sexual orientation. Others might not enjoy it for the same reasons anyone might not gravitate toward specific bedroom activities: lack of interest, personal discomfort, and so on. The most important part of learning how to finger a man, Levine says, is starting a conversation about experimenting with prostate stimulation.

You shouldn't just stick your finger in your boyfriend's butt without his consent. Levine suggests making it about a larger discussion about anal sex. Mostly, it's about being honest and open.

Or tell him to find some other way of getting me to that point again? Tell the boyfriend he can finger your butt for 10 minutes after he rims it for I am a year-old woman with a strange problem.

I recently started lifting weights, and every time I use the arm machines, I have an orgasm. It is not obvious to anyone else I think , and my sex life is great outside of the gym. What should I do? Vaginal penetration feels good but head or finger fucking is not fun.

I thought that it was just the people I was sleeping with. You know, age and a small town, blah blah blah. Off to collage, are we?

I am a year-old straight girl. Too, just want to check, does he often do things like the anal fingering without asking you explicitly first? Re: Boyfriend wants me to finger him Unread post by katkit » Thu Jul 30, pm Sorry what I said didnt come out right.

The phrase I used: "hes slipped a finger in my anus a few times" made it sound as though it was without my explicit permission.

He did ask me and I allowed him those few times. I was ok withe the act, I didnt have a problem with it i still dont. It just wasnt something I thought felt good enough where I felt the need to ask do it again Thank you for your help! I'll be sure to readd the article. I hope you find it helpful.